Being cruel to be kind

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know

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I think if you're very good friends

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sometimes it's pays to be cruel to be

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kind yeah and is that going on in this

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friendship as well sometimes

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would you call each other out yeah yeah

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100% yeah being able to be yourself yeah

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being able to be yourself and and I

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think the other thing is Ian and I we

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don't see each other that often but we

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always just

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shush we just sort of pick up don't we

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where we left off

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commitment um I would say a shared

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passion yeah um and humor yeah

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definitely a sense of humor I mean when

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there all of us fall together we have

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such laughs yeah know hysterical laughs

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in hysterical

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places patience yeah just being honest

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and honesty is the best thing for me I

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think that's probably why and yeah open

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communication yeah she's a very open

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Communicator yes you call it out

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absolutely yeah that's good though right

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you know where you stand what is the

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most important part of that

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communication is it the speaking bit or

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the listening bit both yeah it's having

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a conversation yes it is one speaks the

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other one speaks yes but I would I would

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actually say more listening because most

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people I know don't listen um they

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pretend