Building a strong foundation

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absolutely is

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like the the foundation to a good

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relationship but but is that something

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you have to find out at the beginning

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like AB absolutely yeah okay and so you

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figured that out that that is like the

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foundation cuz if you don't have the

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same core values it will come to a time

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in your relationship where you're clash

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and that could be like the end of your

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relationship Jay again a cliche answer

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but I think compromise compromise is

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good realistically like you at the end

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of the day like you care for each other

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and you love each other very much but

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you still different people say

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communication but compromise I think

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it's right up there accepting that

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you're both individuals coming together

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you don't have to do everything together

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necessarily but you both communicate and

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exactly as long as you keep you build

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it's a relationship you're building

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something together it's not one-sided

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trust in each other yes I think so and

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uh family we've got four grown-up

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children seven grandchildren so you know

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that's kind of like a glue that sticks

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us all together I think

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trust is um and

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companionship really uh

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honesty if you got them three things

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we're not going to agree on everything

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yeah but you can agree to disagree

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without having to