Building a stronger relationship

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out I'm

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just out of the sea so I can bar I can

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barely move my face um

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but um and I it feels yeah like much

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stronger for that reason CU like you

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break it down if you break something

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down you builds up a bit stronger I

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think I would say being honest with your

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partner but I think it starts with being

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honest with yourself um just about like

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maybe what you want or how you're

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feeling I think it's easy to um kind of

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tell ourselves something that's not

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necessarily true oh this will be fine

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later on but really if you're just

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really honest and and don't like play

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any games it makes things so much easier

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also to make a little surprises to your

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loved ones some small things his

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favorite thing to eat on breakfast or

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organize a surprise birthday part or

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some small things we'll we'll bring

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something up even if it might cause a

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bit of an argument we will bring

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something up and then discuss it um and

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that actually stops the arguments it

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stop sort of getting resentful and

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things like that and we sort of we just

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discuss everything if something annoying

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us the other ones done or we don't think

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we should be doing we'll we'll the a

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little bit that's the best way to do it

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rather than just let it see and simmer

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you can be two people who are incredibly

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different or very similar but it doesn't

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mean you're communicating the same way

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and just because you might not have the

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same communication