Choosing your battles

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like

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like people say that you have to pick

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your battle sometimes there are some

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things aren't worth bringing up but like

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most of the time just bring it up you'll

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feel better just do it in a calm way if

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there's any ever a moment where we think

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like what do we do here we always come

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back to just talk about like we we talk

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about it for an hour or something and

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then think oh my God I'm so happy we

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just talked about it and we're so open

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and yeah and also that the little things

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you know when you see on I don't know

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Instagram or Tik Tok these um

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relationship questions or those are the

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questions you ask your partner we just

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take those and go on a date night and

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drink a glass of or wine and then just

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ask each other and then yeah it's it's

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it just helps the communication helps

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the relationship yeah M compromise give

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and take yeah compromise that's a good

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one say communication but compromise

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yeah yeah compromise you got

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to see phone being respectful I think

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you know like sometimes you can kind of

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get like an instinct that something

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would be good for the other person and

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like kind of following that can be

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healthy but again we'll get back to you

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on

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now I I've I've been way more honest

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with you than I've ever been with

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somebody and no yeah I'm just out I'm

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just out of the sea so