The value of genuine praise

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hi I'm here to talk to you about the

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importance of Praise admiration and

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thank you and having it be specific and

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genuine and the way I got interested in

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this was I noticed myself when I was

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growing up until about a few years ago

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that I would want to say thank you to

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someone I would want to praise them I'd

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want to take in their Praise of me and I

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just stop it and I asked myself why I I

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felt shy felt embarrassed and then my

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question became am I the only one who

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does this so I decided to

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investigate I'm fortunate enough to work

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in the rehab facility so I get to see

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people who are facing life and death

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with addiction and sometimes it comes

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down to something as simple as their

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core wound is their father died with

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ever without ever saying he was proud of

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them but then they hear from all the

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family and friends that the father told

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everybody else that he was proud of him

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but he never told his son it's because

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he didn't know that his son needed to

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hear it so my question is why don't we

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ask for the things