Remember everyone has insecurities

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job or you just know

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that you're lacking in some sort of

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skill in life i think it's also worth

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realizing that everybody has some sort

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of neuroticism in their life and that

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most people who are outwardly confident

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are usually doing this to compensate for

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something which uh makes them feel a

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little bit insecure i personally

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actually love people who admit to their

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failures in life and who admit that they

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are quite insecure about things i think

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it makes people really modest and quite

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humble which is um a very attractive

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quality i think so i dubbed this the

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eight mile approach based on the eminem

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film

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i think if you're feeling nervous or

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emotional you're probably best off just

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outwardly admitting it i think people

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can often see behind

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any sort of ruse anyone has if they're

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pretending to be okay i think it's quite

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easy to see through this

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and to be honest i think most people if

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you admit this will

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have empathy towards you or they should

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show empathy towards you so for me

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personally

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i have a confidence issue in

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speaking another language i work in the

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easy languages network and all of our

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meetings are held in english so i get to

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see the level of english that all the

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non-native speakers have and it's truly

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amazing so it does make me very

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self-conscious that my german is

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absolutely nowhere near the level of

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english that they have